According to Nana Aba Anamoah, it is a major turn-off when a man watches adult films and then expects his partner to perform like a porn star in the bedroom.
She describes this mindset as a serious red flag, explaining that such expectations are unrealistic and unhealthy.
In her view, men who model intimacy on what they see on adult websites place unfair pressure on their partners and misunderstand real relationships.
Nana Aba believes that no woman can ever truly satisfy someone whose desires are shaped by pornography, because those standards are exaggerated, performative, and disconnected from genuine intimacy entirely.